Sunday, December 13, 2020

THE GATEKEEPER


Kampala has all kinds of jobs. From the cobbler to the bank teller, from the teacher to the surgeon. The streets of Kampala are full of people seeking to either make their mark or earn their dime. However, none of these jobs is ‘arguably’ as fulfilling and yet as frightening as that of the gatekeeper. Often times, these officers (normally they are men) are feared more than the traffic cops. They will toss you up and down and seem to relish when you are squirming in panic and urgency (especially when you have an appointment). Let me explain



Scenario One

Venue: The Court

You are rushing to the court room. The trial judge is known to be a stickler for time. He is the kind who will dismiss the case or adjourn it sine die if you are not in the courtroom in (not ‘on’) time.  When you have finally negotiated through the traffic, you reach the court room and the bored looking gateman slides like a snail to your car door. He might take your temperature or squirt a few droplets of alcohol sanitizer into your hand before whispering behind a fading GOU mask – Where are you going Sebbo? He grunts. ‘To the Courtroom of course !’ your mind screams. However, you know that you have to keep your cool if you are to be let in. ‘Afande, I am appearing before Justice ….’ You say this with a smile which cannot be seen behind your mask. ‘There is no parking’ the guard mutters.  ‘Afande, the judge will dismiss my case, if I am not in by 9am,’ you plead as you desperately look at your watch. Then the negotiations begin

 

Scenario Two

Venue: A commercial building in the radius of the Parliament

 

You drive to the gate and wait. The tall lanky angry looking guard literally growls at your vehicle. He has been disturbed from his lunch. You ignore looking at his face as he tries to mouth those horrible words – ‘there is no parking space.’ He walks to your car and there is an exchange of words. ‘I am not going to park Sir. I am here to pick up Ms. ….’ you plead. He bellows that there is no parking and that you should look for parking elsewhere. All your negotiations seem to hit a rock and fly back at you. The gate-man is so angry with you for even questioning his authority. You recall what happened at a nearby shopping mall where a gate-man shot a customer dead. You opt to keep quiet and call the passenger you have come to pick-up. After a few minutes, the passenger strolls down the stairs to the gate keeper. He is now seated on a worn-out stool inside the shed. They exchange a few hot words. He then rises up, gives you a bad stare –the kind that can easily pluck out your heart, and then opens the gate for you. As you drive in, you thank him. The battle might be won but the war is still on.

 


The Case for the Love Committee of the RCKN

 


A Love Sub-Committee of the Membership Committee for the Rotary Club of Kampala North? What exactly is that? Is it really part of Rotary business? Don’t Rotarians already have enough love at their homes or with their Anns and Andies? What more is there to offer? Are we encouraging relationships within the clubs? What exactly is going on?

In most home settings, the mother tends to bear the weight of running the family. With the exception of the single parent led families, most of the mothers will be seen running to take children to the hospital, buying food, rushing to pick the dry cleaning, or washing dishes at night, etc. In some cases, they will also have extended families to look after and might be involved in other social causes – be it mother’s union or rotary. As a result, often times, the mothers will neglect their own health and self-promotion because they are taken up with looking after the rest of the family and the world. Similarly, one can argue that the members of Rotary Club of Kampala North are like mothers in society. They are often involved in making the lives of others – and society better. They attend various meetings, visit projects, rush to attend to emergencies, sit for hours to come up with new projects and ways of resolving the challenges around them, and in the process, often ignore themselves and those dearest to them

It is for this reason that a love sub-committee of the membership committee of the Rotary Club of Kampala North was formed. This is targeted at tending to our own members, by ‘applying bandages to our wounds,’ or ‘placing a cool cloth on our feverish bodies,’ etc.  The love committee complements the Club’s efforts to follow up on its members, especially those whose attendance of fellowships is inconsistent or who have failed to pay membership fees, amongst others. The committee, which is led by the amiable M.D. Petwa Rwamushoro, seeks to cause us to ‘stop and smell the roses.’ 

In support of the efforts of the Family of Rotary Committee, the Rwamushoro Committee helps us to re-visit those members who were last visited when they were being inducted into the club or who last hosted a home hospitality. It is our hope that our membership shall feel loved once again and considered as valuable members of the Club and not mere statistics in the wider Rotary International fraternity

We love you all

Daniel R Ruhweza

Chair, Membership RCKN

That Scare

That Scare

 

It was probably about 11 pm or midnight when she called. I don't remember well. All I recall was being woken up by my wife who had picked up the phone. I do not fancy late night calls. They always indicate an emergency or urgency. I braced myself and waited as the lady on the other side talked. My wife clicked the loud speaker button on the phone so that i could hear. The lady on the other side – let us refer to her as J- was surprisingly very calm and collected. I could however deduce the urgency in her voice. Something which made me twitch - or so I thought. We spoke and my wife advised that I should drive over to wherever J was and find out what was wrong

I am unable to detail how I got to J. Thank God it was dead in the night and so a journey that would have lasted over an hour was accomplished in almost half the time. Or was it less? I do not recall now. Neither do I recall where I exactly met her but we did nonetheless. J looked tired and worried. She wore a scarf and sweater over her medium sized body. Did I see tears or smudged lipstick? Anyways, she spoke in a low tone. She had failed to get in touch with her husband. Let us call him P. His known phones are off. She had just returned from a work trip upcountry and since it was so late, she feared to walk the long eerie path to her home. P normally picked her up from the taxi stage. 

We drove to the house in silence. Eerie figures in black quickly running away when touched by the car lights. A drunk man lumbered on, falling into the bushes as our car approached. The home in which J and P lived was located in some sort of valley. It was more of a reclaimed swamp. This is a common thing in Kampala especially as the growing population keeps looking for more land to build and live. The neighbourhood was dead silent. Only the crickets and a few frogs  seemed to be awake. We managed to open the gate and drive in. We reached the house and tried to knock and call. Nothing. Their home was part of a collection of four semi-detached houses. It was a weekend and therefore most people had either travelled or where ‘hanging out’ into the dead of the night. No vehicles were in the parking yard of the compound.

I tried to look inside the house. I pressed my face to the window, and tried to look through the parting curtain. I shielded my palms on both sides of my face so that a light from the neighbour's shed didn't prevent me from looking inside. Though it was dark, I could see what looked like P's his legs sprayed out on the carpet facing up. The rest of the body was shielded from my view because of the coffee set. There was trickling of light coming into the room through the kitchen. My heart started beating, and I feared the worst had happened. I told J what I had seen and as she tried to take a look, I called my wife to brief her. She was surprisingly calm. J was also calm and I wondered whether I was just fearing for nothing

We somehow managed to work through the back door and open it. Adrenalin rushed through my veins as I made out the clear form of P splayed out in the lounge. The light from the kitchen now made it easy for us to see. We rushed to him. Empty pill packages in aluminium blisters were laid on a side table together with empty bottles of local crude gin. All the movies I had watched came rushing back to me. We tried to wake up P to no avail. I wondered whether he had already passed on. I do not recall checking his pulse. We instead decided to take him to a nearby clinic to confirm our fears



I managed another call to my wife. She was still calm and reassuring. ‘He has simply passed out’ she asserted. I probably said she was not there to tell. The man looked dead to me. Being a rather heavy man, we heaved and shoved as we dragged his limp body to the vehicle. It felt like he weighed 200 kgs or more. We must have been quite a sight. Like criminals trying to take away a body. If any police man had walked in, since we had not called in for help, prima facie, we were guilty of whatever.At some point we dragged, at other points we shoved at some point we managed to lift and put him in the vehicle and then drove off to the clinic. 

I didn’t hear the toads and tickets any more. Just the pumping of my heart. I do not recall how we got there… but at some point we were driving past a police station and I wondered whether we should first inform them before we sped. What if he passed on as we tried to do paper work? I mean – what would we say? What questions would be asked and how would we answer them? I marvelled. The pressed the accelerator. Thank God hardly any traffic on the road. Time check? I do not know

At the clinic, I drove in asking for help – a wheel chair a bed on wheels- something… anything. The medics seemed slightly hurried but calm. We soon heaved P out of the car, onto a wheel chair and as J made attended to the paperwork, we rushed P to a ward. The elderly nurse in white uniform listened patiently as we shoved P onto a hospital bed. She then drew the curtains to avail us some privacy. Another nurse who seemed to have been awaken from her sleep walked in, and quickly meticulously pushed what looked like a huge grey cannula into P’s right arm. A part of me begun to calm down. J walked in. She was still calm. She had said a few words since the whimpers at the window and some cries of desperation when we found P at sprawled on the floor

The medicine was pumping fast into M’s body. Three four bottled down the line. The man was back to us. I could have punched him!

The Scare -

….


Wednesday, December 09, 2020

Beware - the Culture of Honour

One day, whilst talking to a lady who mans a photocopying stall at the School of Law, Makerere University, i cracked a joke which made her say something to the effect that she didn't expect me to do that. She went ahead to say that she remembers me as a young innocent student who would hardly hurt a fly. Whereas this lady (we call her 'mulokole' meaning one who has given one's life to Christ) has probably forgotten this statement she made, it is amazing how, many years down the line, I still recall what she said. On another occasion, one of my former lecturers who now works in the judiciary reminded me of the time I was at the law School, Makerere University. My former lecturer then went ahead to narrate various instances in which we had interacted. This former lecturer has never hesitated to recommend me for various opportunities.

The above stories have reminded me of a recent instance where some of my students acted dishonourably. Whatever instigated their actions and behaviour, out of the abundance of their hearts, 'their mouths spoke'. Later on, as I reflecting on the occasion, I was reminded of how important it is to act honourably at all times. One is not able to tell when and where their actions will either promote or damage their future prospects.

During a recent meeting, someone made an unfortunate truth - according to them, however good one might be, one error or omission can damage them for life. Whereas it is true that we do forgive and are encouraged to forgive and forget, often times the world does not act or behave in this way. William Shakespeare, in Julius Caesar writes “The evil that men do lives after them; The good is oft interred with their bones.”

 


Do Your Part

 Do Your Part

... and do it afraid

It is a season to be merry and yet a season to be cautious. Why? This is because COVID-19 is here and the reports and predictions are not very encouraging. In the midst of all this is a campaign for political offices which have unfortunately been mired with a lot of violence from both the state and individual actors.

In the midst of careless and often threatening talk, some people have suggested that we ought to look for ways to stay safe and only comment and observe from a safe distance. My view is that we all have a part to play in ensuring this fight against COVID-19 on the one hand, and political blackmail on the other, is won. What difference will your lone voice make? One might ask. Well, I am reminded of the story of the little boy at the beach who was throwing starfish that had been washed ashore in the night, back to the sea. A passer-by asked him what difference he thought he could make since there were so many star fish that were ashore. The young man kept on throwing back one starfish at a time and saying, 'it had made a difference for that one, and that one, and that one....

Sometimes, all you need to do is to be the David who kills the first giant and then others will pick up the courage to also become giant killers. Therefore, in this season, LET US DO OUR PART- and do it afraid. Encourage someone to wear a face mask always, tell people to sanitise and/or to cough into their arm. When someone begins to speak hate, doom or gloom, rebuke them in love (Proverbs 17:10 A rebuke goes deeper into one who has understanding, than a hundred blows into a fool.) or with the honour they deserve (1 Timothy 5:1 Do not sharply rebuke an older man, but rather appeal to him as a father, to the younger men as brothers). Whatever you do, do something. Do now cower away and hide. (The creation waits in eager expectation for the revelation of the sons of God Romans 8:18).

So, like the boy at the beach, go ahead and do your part ... and do it afraid

 

Friday, October 23, 2020

On honour - Part 2

 Dear Mwirians


What does it mean to be a an honourable Man? Is it the size of your car? the fatness of your bank account or the beauty of your house? It is the job or the beauty of your wife? Is it about the businesses you run or the offshore accounts held?


The Scriptures advise thus👇🏾


 ... be blameless, the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, hospitable, able to teach; not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous; one who rules his own house well, having his children in submission with all reverence ... not a novice, lest (be) puffed ... have a good testimony among those who are outside, lest he fall into reproach ...1 Timothy 3:2


Keep honourable. Keep the faith. Keep the love

Ease the Lockdown!

Ease the Lockdown! Open the arcades! Where is our posho? Cut the taxes! This virus is a hoax! Account for the funds! There isn't enough salt in my food. The boss hasn't paid us enough. He doesn't love me any more!


On and on and on

There is grumbling and murmuring everywhere


What then should be our attitude?

Do all things without grumbling or questioning, that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast to the word of life, so that in the day of Christ I may be proud that I did not run in vain or labor in vain. Philippians 2:14-16 ESV


Keep the faith. Keep the love. Keep the hope.

On honour

 Dear Mwirians


Our parents may not be perfect

Honour them!

Our bosses may be abusive

Honour them!

Our leaders might be crude and rude

Honour them!

Our wives might be  disrespectful

Honour them!


The Scripture is clear 


Honor all people. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king.

1 Peter 2:17-19 (NKJV)


Keep the faith. Keep the Love. Keep the hope


Kulwa Katonda N'ggwanga Lyaffe

Lockdown series

The kids are home. The kids are everywhere. The cases of discipline do not seem to end. The noise levels are high and so is the electricity bill. Many of our treasured glasses and sitting room paraphernalia have been broken and our anger can be weighed in kilograms!!


So how do we deal with these kids? How do we deal with our sons? How do we deal with these future Mwirians and prepare them for the future? Is there a magic wand?


The slow and steady solution starts with the words of Wise King Solomon


My son, give attention to my words; Incline your ear to my sayings. Do not let them depart from your eyes;

Keep them in the midst of your heart; For they are life to those who find them,

And health to all their flesh. Keep your heart with all diligence. For out of it spring the issues of life. Put away from you a deceitful mouth, And put perverse lips far from you (_Proverbs 4:20-27_)


Keep teaching. Keep advising. Keep loving. Keep parenting. Keep mentoring. Keep the faith


Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.   _Proverbs 22:6 ESV

The Greatest Challenge

 The Greatest Challenge


Dear Mwirians


Oftentimes we are accosted with challenges. Cheats take away our profits. Conmen mess up our opportunities. Co-workers betray us and even even our best friends depart at the hour of utmost need


The temptation for revenge and back is often very high but the Lord Jesus has a better standard


Jesus said .... “ ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’  This is the first and great commandment.  And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’  Matthew 22:37‭-‬39 NKJV


Keep the faith. Keep the hope. Keep the love button on

Keep leading. Keep the faith. Keep safe.

 Election season is here. The scientific campaigns are here. The wrangling has started. The fights are here. The bitterness has begun


Mwirians, we are called to lead and be exemplary in these times. 


We, whose elders led the road to independence.


We, whose elders curved the path to nation building


We, whose motto became the national motto


We need to focus on the bigger things. How do we do it?


The Scripture says 


Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice.

Ephesians 4:31 NKJV


Keep leading. Keep the faith. Keep safe. 


Kulwa katonda Neggwanga Lyaiffe


For God and our Country

 The Lockdown continues. The jobs remain scarce. The contracts are few. The non-essential workers amongst us may cry " Where is God when we need Him the most? What is He saying to us in these tough times?


Our prayer to you Mwirians today is the Prayer of John the Apostle


Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers. III John 1:2 NKJV



Keep the faith. Keep safe . Keep trusting. Joy cometh in the morning.

Brothers


COVID 19 is here and it has changed the status quo. LOCKDOWN. Salary Cuts. Closed businesses. Rent arrears and so on are the stories we here


Our encouragement is 


“Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers.”

‭‭III John‬ ‭1:2‬ ‭NKJV


So keep the faith. Look to Christ. Keep the prayers on


Encouragement to Mwirians

 Encouragement to Mwirians


Brothers


Whatever battles you might be going through during this season, remember the words of the Wise King Solomon 


The race is not to the swift, Nor the battle to the strong, Nor bread to the wise, Nor riches to men of understanding, Nor favor to men of skill; But time and chance happen to them all.

Ecclesiastes 9:11 NKJV


So keep going.Keep fighting. Keep pushing

Comments in LockDown - Part 6

 Dear brothers


What occupies your time apart from football, drink, chatting, social media and exercise? Is it family? friends? work? Is there much more you could do?


James 1:27: Pure and undefiled religion in the sight of our God and Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself unstained by the world


Make time people to give back to humanity. Look out for the widows and the children 


Keep loving. keep caring. Keep hoping

Comments in LockDown - Part 5

 Dear Brothers


The recent death of a father and husband causes us to revisit the dire need for men to share their problems with others and not to bottle up their problems.


So, who is your person of peace? Is there a brother you know who understands you? Is there a brother who can drop everything just to rush to your rescue? Is there a brother who checks on you regularly? Is there a Brother who can look after your kids when you pass on? Is this brother a Mwirian? 


The Scripure says 


Proverbs 18:24: One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.


Keep Loving. Keep Hoping. Keep Building

Comments in LockDown - Part 4

 Dear Mwirians


The World is looking for distinguished men. How can we be in this class? 


What distinguishes you from them? Why would people want to associate with you not them? How can you be pleasant company? and of great influence to all and sundry?


The Scripture says 


But now you yourselves are to put off all these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language out of your mouth. Do not lie to one another ...

(Colossians 3:8‭-‬10 NKJV)


Be safe. Be wise. Be hopeful

Comments in LockDown - Part 3

Elections are here. Tensions are high and the stakes are even higher. Family fortunes have been put at a pendulum andnit is so easy to lose it of things do not go your way. CoVID 19 does not make it any easier for us and so we are witnessing rising tempers and criminality


The word to the Mwirian is here


For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control. 2 Timothy 1:7


Galatians 5:22-23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. 


We therefore need to develop our emotional intelligence for this and other seasons in life. To do this, allow counselling, have advisors and seek knowledge


Keep loving. Keep patient. Keep hoping.

Comments in LockDown - Part 2

Hello Hello Hello Beloved Mwirian👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾


Greetings and much love to you today from the Scripture Union Alumni 🤩👍🏾


This is the day the Lord has made, We will Rejoice and be Glad in it-(Psalm 118:24)


This new week is a new opportunity to get up and  keep the fight. 


Inspite of CoVID 19, keep going. Don't lose heart. Go ahead and confront that fear. 


Stand up again and deal with that pain, that disappointment, that challenge ....


Yes, regardless of  the disappointments, go on and make a difference, (however small) in the lives of those around you


We, your cheerleaders continue to encourage you and vouch for you


#For the GreaterHorizonsTheStruggleContinues

#Don'tGiveUp

#KulwaKatondaNeGwanggaLyaffe

#For God and My Country

#GakyaliMabanga

Letter to Mwirians - Part One

 Dear Mwirians


There are many things happening around us and it is so easy for us to shift the blame and responsibility on others 


We often hear of Tusaba Government atuyambe(We ask the Government to help us) or Government Weyayu(Government where are you?) 


The Scripture says - 


Psalm 115:16 The heaven, even the heavens, are the Lord’s;

But the earth He has given to the children of men.


So take responsibility. You are in charge. 


 Objective XXIX. of the Constitution of Uganda also details our duties as  citizens  engaging  in  gainful  work  for  the  good  of  that  citizen,  the  family,  the  common  good  and  to contribute  to  national  development; and   contributing  to  the  well-being  of  the  community  where  that  citizen  lives; among others


Take action. Keep hope. Keep positive

Tuesday, July 07, 2020

DEAR DAUGHTER IN LAW

Dear Daughter in Law

I hope this message finds you well? I know that at the time of writing this message, only GOD Almighty knows who you are and what you are doing. I pray that you are well? I pray that you are doing your homework and listening to your Mother's instructions and your father's advice. I pray that your earthly daddy is in your life and showing you the way you should live so that you will never depart from it. May they invest in helping you to be a might woman of valor, one of great integrity, humble and yet strong willed. Loving and yet not easily festered or cowed into submission for the wrong reasons. May you be of strong character and will

My son - your husband- has spent most of today typing away at his laptop. He is undertaking online classes. I hope that you are also doing the same, or at least you are under some form of academic instruction since COVID-19 and the subsequent lock-down has created a 'new normal' as they call it (or dispute it).

Whichever country you belong to, and whichever tribe or colour of skin you might have, I pray that you will honour the Lord your God with all your heart and all your soul and all your ways. I would like you to know that we are doing our best right now to raise your husband well. Yes- he is growing into a tall lanky fellow with a handsome face. He is still cheeky and loves to play football. He is also quite humble and respectful of his elders (or at least most of them - his rebuttals to his sisters notwithstanding)

I just want you to know that we are doing our part and with God's help, he will be a responsible, God fearing, loving and agile husband. We continue to pray for you and for him and for our future grandchildren. 

AMEN for now 07.07.2020

To be continued .....


CLOSE YOUR EYES


Listen …..
Do you hear them?
The birds are chirping
The insects are buzzing
The wind is whispering
The kids are giggling
Your heart is beating
Do you hear them?
This is life
In spite of COVID 19


Friday, May 01, 2020

20 Facts about me - Part 2

In keeping with the #UgBlog challenge, here are the second set of 10 facts about me –


11.                        I am a Mwirian

S-N-A-R-L.

I studied at Busoga College Mwiri and I have never regretted it. It was while at Mwiri (whose logo is the Leopard and hence the SNARL), that I honed my passion for God and leadership. I also made some of my best friends there. Men (and women who either visited us or got to know us) who have continued to have such a positive impact on me to date. Mwiri taught me that all men are born equal and (just like Rotary shows) regardless of your status in life, we are all part of this amazing journey called life. I have met exemplary leaders and givers in and because of Mwiri. I remain a very proud alumnus of the school.



12.                        Friends are special to me

Yes. I love making new friends. There is a special joy that comes with that. Talking to and discovering nuances never known before. I boast of having a number of friends but I have lost a few along the way. I am however learning that they are always more to make. I still have a few childhood friends including one who I met today after almost three decades. I have been blessed with amazing friends around me. Some are givers, others are encouragers. Some are protectors and others are protected. Some have opened up doors for me to achieve greatness and others have helped me survive storms I would never have managed on my own. I treasure them and I mourn those who have either passed on or disappeared. 


13.                         Animals are special to me 

I have a soft spot for the fauna of this world. Be it in the wild as well as in our homes. No need to mention the types. This doesn’t mean all of them are that attractive. In my early years, I thought I would be a veterinary doctor. Today I am settled for those I can visit, those that run away when they see me, those that I can keep, and those that occasionally grace my dinner plate.

14.                        I teach, practice and consult in Law

The law plays a special part in society. I belong to that crop of professional that thinks it is the most important. However, COVID 19 shows that there are more essential services than ours, or did they get it wrong? There is a court case waiting to be heard soon. We hope it will classify us as essential service providers. It is clear that in this season, many people need our services as reports of torture by some security personnel who are implementing the Presidential Directives are very disturbing.  That said, I am conducting online classes for my law students and the consulting has not ended – including –sadly- a divorce petition. 

15.                        Mentorship

Under the theme, Manhood Versus Maleness, I often conduct mentorship classes for primarily the boy child (red the male student at the University), although the ladies have since convinced us to include them in these discussions. We are planning an online one soon

16.                        Dressing

Whereas COVID 19 has allowed us to grow our beards and hair, I love dressing up well. This might have something to do with my profession but I am inspired by others as well

17.                        I am a Rotarian

Philanthropy is my passion and I have found a vehicle through which this can be done. Rotary International.  The mission of Rotary is to provide service to others, promote integrity, and advance world understanding, goodwill, and peace through fellowship of business, professional, and community leaders. I belong to the Rotary Club of Kampala North and have served as its Youth Services Director. I will, starting this July serves as Director for Membership (which will focus on retaining, caring, and growing our membership). There are also other angles like the Y.O.L.O (You Only Live Once) Missional Community of my local church as well as the Uganda Christian Lawyers Fraternity

18.                        I am a poet
For such a long time, I have written and compiled poetry. There is something special about it. I hope to release my Anthology soon. Look out for it. Cheers. 

19.                        I love adventure and travel 

Yes. I love discovering new places and visiting old cities. Museums also have a special place in my heart since I am a historian. The Museum in Dar es Salaam is very rich. It was quite a surprise when I visited it. We must treasure our own stuff and boast about them. Nonetheless, I would love to visit Israel and Egypt with my family and friends one day. Saving up.

20.                        I love to read, write and blog

From my early childhood, I was very fascinated with the written word. I read many books and have slowly grown my own treasured collection.



20 Facts about me- Part One



20 FACT ABOUT ME-

In keeping with the #UgBlog challenge, here are the first 10 facts about me –

1.     I love Jesus and He loves me more

Yes, I do. If anything truly means anything to me, or if there is anything I can even boast about, it is the fact that Jesus loves me

2.     Nature is my friend and passion

Trees, vegetation, plains, mountains, and valleys. The wild. The farms. All these bring me a lot of joy and peace. A visit to a forest, a swamp with its cooling water (and the sound of the cooling water), all contribute to one of my best moments in life. 

3.     Leadership is my calling

I feel it in my bones, I write about it and offer myself when I feel the call to lead. I remain a student of leadership and learn each day, how I should be a better leader. Currently, I am running a leadership book club with some young energetic people. I love their enthusiasm and wish them the very best in this leadership journey. I am also under instruction by many mentors who I truly honour. I currently lead at Scripture Union Uganda, Uganda Law Society, Uganda Christian Lawyers' Fraternity amongst others. I am also a pundit on television and radio shows on matters concerning good governance, constitutionalism and the rule of law. 

4.     I am an author

Finally, the book is out and a few people have become proud owners of it. After COVID 19, I hope to print more copies for distribution. The book is entitled We do not Teach that at the University: Confessions of a University Don

5.     I am a husband

Yes. I am a proud one at that. There is so much I can say about Clare. She is an inquisitive, caring, hardworking, and awesome human being. She loves ceaselessly and gives so generously of all she has. She is actually annoyingly generous and I have ended up learning from her. It has been a great journey of learning and adjusting. It gets better with the years. What comes to mind is the way in which pearls are formed. Pearls are made by oysters as they try to accommodate foreign bodies that enter their shell, in a bid to prevent it from damaging their fragile bodies. The end result is a precious pearl. This is also the case with marriage. As we try each day to accommodate each other, something beautiful comes through.

6.     I am a father

Recently, I posted a picture of the young lady that appointed me Father. Damita is an awesome lady in her teens and yes we have our battles but hey what a joy it is to ‘fight’ with your employer.  She and her siblings have made our home complete and warm especially in this time as we wait out the COVID 19 scare. As parents, we are super honored to be blessed with these babies. May the Lord give us the wisdom to look after them well. It is our prayer that they will reach their ultimate potential in life and leave this Universe a far better place than they found it


7.     I am a son

An amazing Mother is her son’s Kryptonite. So is my Ma – who now prefers to be called Kaaka Amooti (Grandma Amooti). She is quite a hard-working woman and very selfless. I have never seen her waste a single moment except to rest. She is full of energy and such a caring person. As a nurse, I have seen her care for her patients and as a woman with green fingers, I have seen even the most pathetic of plants flourish at her touch. She has also taught me to always be grateful. I love her to bits

8.     I am a brother

The pages here are too small to describe life as a middle child. There is always something to learn from your elder brothers and a lot to do for the younger siblings. I recall my big brother Robert carrying me on his shoulders to take me to Sunday School at All Saints Cathedral Nakasero. In my childhood memory, I keep believing that he is the one who helped me lard the Lord’s Prayer. May his soul rest in peace. Then one of my brothers Peter gave me my nickname and the other one Musinguzi, a journalist, was such a great storyteller, I never read the Day of the Jackal by Frederick Forsyth after he narrated it to me.  When I watched the movie later in life, I knew the whole story. My relationship with my sisters must have contributed to making me more concerned about the plight of women generally and the girl child in particular. I have been able to learn, from my family, (and now as a father) to be more considerate of the uniqueness of ladies. Preparing for and then taking my younger sisters to school and the hospital, standing up to bullies (with my -then- tiny frame), looking out for them, walking them down the aisle have all been very priceless moments for me. Now that they are married and are mothers, the responsibilities change but a brother I remain.

9.     I love reading the Bible

If ever there was any book that has influenced my life, my culture, my innermost being, it is the Bible. There is always something new that I learn each time I read it or listen to it using various apps that have been developed. Wisdom, peace, joy, happiness, and focus for life can only be found in this great book.

10.                        I am a Christian

The Bible teaches me that for GOD so loved me that He gave His one and only begotten son to die for my sins and in so doing, create a relationship between God and I. Being a Christian doesn’t mean I am better than the next man. It means that I treasure my great relationship with God. I learn about Him each day when I read the word – especially that part that says that He loves me and it is not about how hard I work to make myself holy or better, but it is about HIS grace and unfailing love. He loves me regardless of my shortcomings and I am in Him and He is with me always. My failures are aplenty but His grace is immeasurable.

(To be continued)